July 25th, 2025
by Amy Sanders
by Amy Sanders
Last weekend, I arrived at The Gathering’s McCausland site early to run through the worship. Afterwards, all the people serving at the 9am service gather in a circle to pray. We start by celebrating people who are serving for the first time and sharing where we have seen God this past week. That is when I heard this story:
David sings in the band at McCausland and recently moved to a new neighborhood. He and his spouse Brad have been busy meeting his neighbors and connecting with those that live around him. During the course of conversation, he mentioned that he sings in church. A neighbor was curious about that, and so David offered an invitation. Well, as it turns out, this is a close neighborhood. As soon as others heard about this invitation, they wondered if they could come, as well. Pretty soon, David and Brad had invited 8 or so people to come worship at The Gathering!
As David shared this, I thought to myself, “David has 8 friends coming. I better not screw this up!”
After worship, David eagerly introduced me to his friends and neighbors. We talked briefly, I thanked them for coming, and I invited them to come back. It is a simple story, one that plays out every Sunday with someone. But it is a powerful story – because it illustrates something really important. People come to church because someone they know and trust invites them.
It is powerful to see new people find a church that they are welcomed in. It is inspiring to see people change their lives as they experience Jesus’ love, welcome, challenge, healing, forgiveness, and call. I get to see the way that a healthy church can heal relationships, offer direction, create friendships, support struggling people, and connect people to a God that loves them. But, all of this starts with an invitation.
People do not know that a church like The Gatherings exists if someone doesn’t share it and invite them to check it out. So, today I am grateful for David and Brad. I am so honored that they have found The Gathering to be a meaningful and powerful church. I am grateful for all of you that create a community that is compelling for new people in St. Louis. I am especially grateful any time you step out and offer that invitation to someone else. It is a small act, but it can lead to huge change in the lives of people.
There is no better week to invite a friend. I will be continuing our series Hot Ones: A Spicy Take on Faith by tackling a question I have gotten a lot more of recently, “Could God be a woman?” It is going to be interesting and an important message for where we are culturally right now. I hope you have a great weekend, and I will see you in church…hopefully with a friend!
Peace,
Matt
David sings in the band at McCausland and recently moved to a new neighborhood. He and his spouse Brad have been busy meeting his neighbors and connecting with those that live around him. During the course of conversation, he mentioned that he sings in church. A neighbor was curious about that, and so David offered an invitation. Well, as it turns out, this is a close neighborhood. As soon as others heard about this invitation, they wondered if they could come, as well. Pretty soon, David and Brad had invited 8 or so people to come worship at The Gathering!
As David shared this, I thought to myself, “David has 8 friends coming. I better not screw this up!”
After worship, David eagerly introduced me to his friends and neighbors. We talked briefly, I thanked them for coming, and I invited them to come back. It is a simple story, one that plays out every Sunday with someone. But it is a powerful story – because it illustrates something really important. People come to church because someone they know and trust invites them.
It is powerful to see new people find a church that they are welcomed in. It is inspiring to see people change their lives as they experience Jesus’ love, welcome, challenge, healing, forgiveness, and call. I get to see the way that a healthy church can heal relationships, offer direction, create friendships, support struggling people, and connect people to a God that loves them. But, all of this starts with an invitation.
People do not know that a church like The Gatherings exists if someone doesn’t share it and invite them to check it out. So, today I am grateful for David and Brad. I am so honored that they have found The Gathering to be a meaningful and powerful church. I am grateful for all of you that create a community that is compelling for new people in St. Louis. I am especially grateful any time you step out and offer that invitation to someone else. It is a small act, but it can lead to huge change in the lives of people.
There is no better week to invite a friend. I will be continuing our series Hot Ones: A Spicy Take on Faith by tackling a question I have gotten a lot more of recently, “Could God be a woman?” It is going to be interesting and an important message for where we are culturally right now. I hope you have a great weekend, and I will see you in church…hopefully with a friend!
Peace,
Matt
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January
CoreGroup Guide | Shift Happens Part 1Three Reasons to Worship This Weekend // M-Note 1.10.2026A Mix of Celebrations and Bittersweet News // M-Note 1.17.2026CoreGroup Guide | Shift Happens Part 2CoreGroup Guide | Shift Happens Part 3Spread the Word: Online Only Worship on January 25 // M-Note 1.24.2026A Hard Lesson to Learn...Life's Not Always Fair // M-Note 1.31.2026
February
CoreGroup Guide | Shift Happens Part 4CoreGroup Guide | Power of Serving Part 1CoreGroup Guide | Power of Serving Part 2Ash Wednesday - The Party's Over | Lent Devotional Day 1Led Into the Wildnerness | Lent Devotional Day 2Take a Step Back to Grow Closer to God // M-Note 2.21.2026Celebrating Lent - An Oxymoron? | Lent Devotional Day 3CoreGroup Guide | Power of Serving Part 3Let's Journey With Openness | Lent Devotional Day 4What we Mean by "Penal Substitution" | Lent Devotional Day 5The Cross - Sin and Nearness | Lent Devotional 2026 Day 6The God Who Doesn't Look Away | Lent Devotional 2026 Day 7Worthy of Belonging | Lent Devotional Day 8Confession Without Self-Hatred | Lent Devotional Day 9The Repairer | Lent Devotional Day 10The Lamb of God | Lent Devotional Day 11Why Did Jesus Have to Die? // M-Note 2.28.2026
March
Turning the Lights On | Lent Devotional Day 12CoreGroup Guide | Why Did Jesus Have to Die? - Part 1Love That Leads to Change | Lent Devotional Day 13Like Ads for Love | Lent Devotional Day 14Who are You…Really? | Lent Devotional Day 15Nothing Between Us | Lent Devotional Day 16Let It Rip | Lent Devotional Day 17Christ + Nothing | Lent Devotional Day 18An Unjustifiable War // M-Note 3.7.2026CoreGroup Guide | Why Did Jesus Have to Die? - Part 2A Queer Atonement | Lent Devotional Day 19In Christ Was Life, the Light For All People | Lent Devotional Day 20Failure and the Invitation To New Imagination | Lent Devotional Day 21Jesus & Queerness: Entertaining Angels | Lent Devotional Day 22The Least of These | Lent Devotional Day 23The Good News For All Creation - and the Strange Wonder of God’s People | Lent Devotional Day 24
2025
January
Happy New Year // M-Note 1.4.2025Cancel the Noise // M-Note 1.11.25Cancel the Noise Discussion Guide - Part 1The Beloved Community // M-Note 01.18.2025Cancel the Noise Discussion Guide - Part 2What A Coincidence // M-Note 1.25.25Cancel the Noise Discussion Guide - Part 3Cancel the Noise Discussion Guide - Part 4The Original Influencer // M-Note 2.1.25
February
The Beloved Community Discussion Guide - Part 1Exploring New Sites…And You’re Invited // M-Note 2.8.25The Beloved Community Discussion Guide - Part 2Uncovering Implicit Bias // M-Note 2.15.2025A "Flurry" of Activity // M-Note 2.22.25The Beloved Community Discussion Guide - Part 3The Beloved Community Discussion Guide - Part 4
March
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1 Comment
Thank you for sharing this story. This touched me deeply. Although most (if not all) of the people in my circle have their own church homes, I often find myself itching to find someone (ANYONE) to bring to The Gathering. This place is so so so so special.