September 17th, 2022
by Tyler Curtis
by Tyler Curtis

Recently, I finished a book about building habits in your life that move you from where you are to where you want to be. The author challenges people to make easy, achievable, repeatable habits in order to grow. The key is to grow a little bit every day. One insight really stuck out to me. When thinking about a habit, any habit – saving money, running, reading a book, praying – the key is to do it especially on the days you don’t feel like it. Skipping a day is worse than having a bad day. In other words, running a mile at your slowest ever pace is better than doing nothing at all. In a certain way, a bad day helps you more than a good day.
Later, I was reading a letter Paul writes to his much younger protégé Timothy. In it he writes:
15 Practice these things, and live by them so that your progress will be visible to all. (1 Timothy 4:15)
Practice what? Practice faith. Practice using the gift God gave you. Practice serving, or learning, praying or reading, practice giving up old habits and starting new ones. Practice.
The idea is pretty simple. Faith isn’t a thing you just have or don’t have. It is a thing that you have to practice daily. And like anything, there will be days you feel it, and days you don’t. Days when connecting with God feels natural, and days when it feels forced. But like any habit, the challenge is to especially stay connected on those difficult days, and during those difficult seasons. When it isn’t easy is when we can learn the most, change the most, and grow the most.
The past year has been a difficult season of life for so many of us. Thank you to all of you that have kept practicing faith through worship, prayer, learning or serving. And if that habit has fallen away, do not feel bad. Just remember, there is never a better day that today to start new habits that move us in a new direction.
Peace,
Matt
Later, I was reading a letter Paul writes to his much younger protégé Timothy. In it he writes:
15 Practice these things, and live by them so that your progress will be visible to all. (1 Timothy 4:15)
Practice what? Practice faith. Practice using the gift God gave you. Practice serving, or learning, praying or reading, practice giving up old habits and starting new ones. Practice.
The idea is pretty simple. Faith isn’t a thing you just have or don’t have. It is a thing that you have to practice daily. And like anything, there will be days you feel it, and days you don’t. Days when connecting with God feels natural, and days when it feels forced. But like any habit, the challenge is to especially stay connected on those difficult days, and during those difficult seasons. When it isn’t easy is when we can learn the most, change the most, and grow the most.
The past year has been a difficult season of life for so many of us. Thank you to all of you that have kept practicing faith through worship, prayer, learning or serving. And if that habit has fallen away, do not feel bad. Just remember, there is never a better day that today to start new habits that move us in a new direction.
Peace,
Matt
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January
Happy New Year // M-Note 1.4.2025Cancel the Noise // M-Note 1.11.25Cancel the Noise Discussion Guide - Part 1The Beloved Community // M-Note 01.18.2025Cancel the Noise Discussion Guide - Part 2What A Coincidence // M-Note 1.25.25Cancel the Noise Discussion Guide - Part 3Cancel the Noise Discussion Guide - Part 4The Original Influencer // M-Note 2.1.25
February
The Beloved Community Discussion Guide - Part 1Exploring New Sites…And You’re Invited // M-Note 2.8.25The Beloved Community Discussion Guide - Part 2Uncovering Implicit Bias // M-Note 2.15.2025A "Flurry" of Activity // M-Note 2.22.25The Beloved Community Discussion Guide - Part 3The Beloved Community Discussion Guide - Part 4
March
Beloved Community Action Steps // M-Note 3.1.25Vulnerability & Wilderness | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 1Trusting the Spirit's Lead | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 2Courageous Connection | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 3What's Your Emotional IQ? // M-Note 3.8.25The Spaces Between Us | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 4Emotional Rollercoaster Discussion Guide - Part 1Jesus Weeps With You | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 5When Sadness Lingers | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 6Lurking in the Shadows | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 7Cycles of Life and Death | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 8Inked in Memory | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 9The Void of Grief | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 10Sending Forth // M-Note 3.15.25Emotional Rollercoaster Discussion Guide - Part 2Journey Not Alone | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 11Friends Along the Way | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 12The Loneliness of Fear | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 13Not Through With You Yet | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 14Clinging to Hope | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 15Bring It To The King | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 16Pray When Unsteady | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 17Courage to Stand for Faith | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 18Emotional Rollercoaster Discussion Guide - Part 3A Holy Rage | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 19Focus on What is Holy | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 20Fast for Justice and Kindness | 2025 Lenten Devotional | Day 21
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January
Clean Slate: Week 1 Discussion GuideStarting & Sustaining Change // M-Note 1.6.24Clean Slate: Week 2 Discussion GuideStarting Small, Dreaming Big // M-Note 1.13.24Clean Slate: Week 3 Discussion GuideTogether Towards Change...and Healthy Habits // M-Note 1.20.24Clean Slate: Week 4 Discussion GuideSlowing Down for God to Show Up // M-Note 1.27.24
February
More Isn't Always Better // M-Note 2.3.24Money Talks: Week 1 Discussion GuideAshes for Valentine's Day? // M-Note 2.10.24Money Talks: Week 2 Discussion GuideLenten Devotional 2024Money Talks: Week 3 Discussion GuideWhat's your legacy? // M-Note 2.17.24Strength in Numbers: Community in Ministry // M-Note 2.24.24Entourage Discussion Guide - Week One
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Entourage Discussion Guide - Week TwoUpdates from Clayton and Easter Invitation // M-Note 3.2.24Twenty Students Confirmed Last Sunday // M-Note 3.9.24Entourage Discussion Guide - Week 3How serving at Easter can really make a difference // M-Note 3.16.24Entourage Discussion Guide - Week 4Can You Know Joy Without Pain? // M-Note 3.23.24Entourage Discussion Guide - Week 5It's time for EasterSTL at The Factory // M-Note 3.28.24
April
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